Question 1

What is peer counselling and how is it different from regular therapy?

Accepted Answer

Peer counselling means you are speaking with someone who has walked the path. You don't have to spend the first three sessions explaining industry terminology, safety protocols, or the nuances of the 'double life.' Because I have lived experience as a sex worker, our sessions bypass the 'burden of education' and go straight to the heart of your experience with a foundation of mutual understanding.

Question 2

Do I have to use my legal name or provide ID?

Accepted Answer

Your privacy is my highest priority. While I require a way to contact you (such as your ProtonMail address), you are welcome to use a 'working name' or pseudonym during our sessions. My practice is built on a foundation of clinical confidentiality and digital security to ensure your identity remains protected.

Question 3

Will you try to 'save' me or tell me to quit the industry?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. My practice is rights-based and sex-positive. I believe sex work is work. My role is not to dictate your career path, but to support your mental health, agency, and well-being. Whether you are happily working, navigating workplace trauma, or considering a transition out of the industry, the agenda is always yours.

Question 4

Can we talk about drug or alcohol use without judgment?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I specialize in addiction recovery and harm reduction. If you are struggling with substance use or navigating the intersection of the industry and addiction, this is a safe, non-pathologizing space. We focus on your goals—whether that is total abstinence, controlled use, or simply staying safe.

Question 5

How do we meet, and is it discreet?

Accepted Answer

I offer sessions via Telehealth (secure video call) across Australia, as well as in-person options in Melbourne and Sydney. My booking and communication systems are chosen for their encryption and discretion. Your bank statement will reflect a professional counselling service, maintaining your privacy at every step.

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